Wednesday, May 7, 2008

SELF REFLECTION!

Time flies, ohh how time flies. It's time to flashback what have i learnt and my mistakes for from the past 2 weeks. In just a short time of 2 wks ago, there was a major event that strike up, partly due to my careless and incompentence as i did not know much about my hidden self.
As soon as everything got opened up, i got to understand more about my hidden self. Learnt things that i have never learn before or used before. Well, passing down infomation is one the things that i overlook while doing all the planning and stuffs. It was one of the most important thing that i lacked. Must work harder and improve myself on this.
Next thing i learnt from the our track and field office is that i didnt delegate my workload among all the others member. Delagating work is one of the most important prospect of a leader- what we have learnt in Outward Bound Singapore. But in real life, i haven got a chance to delegate things. What I have learnt from the mud pool expedition, a leader have to be the one overlooking the whole issue, for example if your teammembers is stuck in the mudpool, what should a leader do? Go back and help? No, if you are going back to help that is the wrong you, you have to continue proceeding forward and then ask or delegate to someone to rescue the person stuck.
Following closely to assigning things to people, one couldnt always possible be always the one planning everything sometimes others must also rise up to take the planning thing, one lessons learnt from a senior, let take a birthday celebration for example, if i know that there is this person birthday coming up, instead of me planning the event, i could like voice out to the rest "Hey _____ birthday is coming up, shall we do something or buy something like birthday cake for he/her?" That was a good suggestion made by one of our seniors.
Stepping out of the box is also one of the most important issue that i have learnt. Being always into the thing itself, made me unable to see the whole issue as a whole, but instead only able to view half or less than half of the issue, when one step out of it, you will feel as though everything postive and negative you will learn it all by yourself.
RESPECT- One word that is the most important yet not being used.
All these are my so called hidden self and as just been known to be in this 2 weeks, will try my best to improve on it and not let all these things happen again! In order to get R.I.D of all the disputes in a team, organisation or what, i think these are the 3 impt things!
R- Respect
I-Information flow
D- Delegation
Signing Off!
EvOLuTiOnDeViL~

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